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how we met-happy 10 years! | blairsville, pa photographer | personal

By March 8, 2011 2 Comments

Very little people ACTUALLY know how Greg and I met. As a matter of fact, my Mom of all people just found out how we met this past Christmas (even though she tells me that she always had a hunch). So it got me to thinking, if my Mom doesn’t know-how many people DO know? I’ve told my very close friends and it’s nothing horrible really …..but 10 years ago it wasn’t quite as acceptable as it is now. My parents knew we “met” at the Mall but that was about all they knew! LOL Because today is the day that Greg and I officially met in person-10 years ago, I thought it would be fitting to tell our story. I apologize upfront if I babble….I’m literally giving you the “nut shell” version! 🙂

I have no idea where to start really…. It goes a little something like this:

I had just broken up with my boyfriend (not Greg) several months ago (who in all honesty broke my friggin heart). It was spring break for IUP and being the broke college student I was, while everyone else went on to their exotic vacation, bikini’s and tans, I went home to stay with my parents for the week. During the day I would work but in the evenings I would hop online. My parents had JUST purchased a computer so in an attempt not to drive myself crazy (you know what it’s like to move out of home then go back-tee he he) I would get online and play around in the chat room. THAT my friends is where Greg comes into play. Get ready to laugh: his screen name was “therock_inpa” and mine “jenny_5582”. We met in a PA chat room on Yahoo. Pre-Facebook, pre-Myspace, pre-e harmony, etc…..a good old fashion chat room. (Nut shell version) We chatted for about a week online, sent emails back and forth and then finally talked on the phone. This guy was pretty cool, we had tons in common and he wanted to meet me………gulp….in person! Keep in mind, this is when Internet dating wasn’t so common-only weirdos did it. So there we were making plans to meet up 1/2 way between his house and mine (although I think he drove further) at the Monroeville Mall. I thought, it’s safe right. I mean if he’s some kind of perv, I could always scream and people would hear me!!! haha!

I arrived first so I sat on a bench in the Mall waiting to laugh at myself for being so stupid for “falling” for this when Greg came around the corner. (nut shell version) We went to a movie, had dinner and he made me laugh…..we had a great time but the truth was, I was still in college almost 2 hours away and I had just gotten out of a long distance relationship so Iwasn’t sure how it would work. I couldn’t drive to see him-I had to focus on school.  The next day, I got a phone call from him asking if he could bring a friend to come visit me at IUP. Literally (no exaggeration) since THAT day forward, we spent every day and night together. He owned his own business so his schedule was a bit more flexible than mine. He would spend the night with me, get up in the morning and drive 2-3 hours (depending on traffic) to drive home and work, then at he’d hop back into his Jeep and drive the 2-3 hours back to IUP to stay with me. I lived in a dorm at the time and my room mate was the bomb diggity (HI VICKYYYYY!!!!)……Greg practically became our third roommate. I knew he was “the one” when I took him to my sorority’s formal (yes folks I rushed for a sorority-no folks I am no longer *IN* the sorority. TOTALLY wasn’t for me!!) Anywho, he was my date to the formal in Canada. While all the pledges and sisters were out at the bars we decided NOT to join the crowd.  So instead, we walked all over the streets in Niagara Falls, Canada and ended up in this rinky dinky little bar. (The photo  below is from that night) We laughed, we joked and I think we “fell in love”.  Almost exactly 2 years to the day, he proposed to me at Niagara Falls.

It wasn’t long before the semester was over and we were searching for apartments together-the rest is history! He was my cheerleader thru college, my rock when things in life went wrong and he is my partner in crime. Sometimes I’d like to reach out and strangle him but on most days I love him to death! Somehow we JUST work!!

As cheesy as they are, below are a few of the things we kept from when we first met. I’m all sentimental like that!! 🙂

AND…………… Below were photos taken just yesterday. As you can see, we haven’t …..except NOW we’ve added a family member. Poor Mallory!!! Happy 10 years Gregory…..I love you to the moon! 🙂

As for that boyfriend in college that broke my heart….thank you!


  • Lisa says:

    you met online 10 years ago? and you think it was weird? 10 years ago? heck, it was *common* by then 😉
    i have friends who met online 17 years ago and are still married – and they had an international border between them!
    ….i should try to find the people i knew in the 80’s who met online and are now married – yes, there WAS an online in the 80’s – honest!! i was there!! *big evil grin* heck, i gave up chat rooms in 1988!
    you’re not so weird – you were just forward thinking for indiana at the time 😉

  • Amanda says:

    Hey! Cute story 🙂 Sometimes when you know, you just KNOW. You have a bee-A-YOU-tiful family 😀 Check out my blog, I posted more Kelley & Nathan pics. Thanks for sending them my way, we had a great time!

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