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visiting grandma at IRMC hospital | Graystone Presbyterian Church | Indiana, PA

By April 28, 2017 No Comments

I have always loved this church. It reminds me of when I visited Italy and all the historical stone churches with high ceilings, ornate details and gorgeous light. There was something so romantic and mysterious about them…..and it’s so cool that we have that right in our backyard in Indiana County, Pa.

How did the two of you meet?
“My job moved me to Huron, Ohio in 2013 and I didn’t know a single person in the entire state! My second day of work, they wanted me to shadow someone in the filling department for a day – he was the guy. He took time to get to know me & recommend places I should check out on the weekends since I was so new to the area.

We became instant friends – going to Cleveland Cavaliers games, going out to eat or meeting up for drinks, taking the kids to the movie theater (hellooo Marvel superhero movies!), going to watch him coach and the kids play basketball & baseball etc.

We soon realized there was something more to it and transitioned into dating and finally into a family. We bought a home in July and couldn’t be happier – it has been a natural transition”- Carissa

The hand off.

Tell us about the proposal:
“We had plans to meet a bunch of people for work for a trivia night at a local bar. We left the house early since it was snowing & decided to stop somewhere for dinner first since we were both hungry. I wanted to stop for fast food since we had plans, but he mentioned he wanted to go to Danny Boys (a local pizza/Italian place where we had spent HOURS and HOURS and HOURS getting to know each other over the years – both as friends & dating). It’s not exactly a quick place to eat, so I told him it would be crazy to go there – we would DEFINITELY be late for trivia night! I (grudgingly) lost the discussion (come on, who can argue against Italian food for more than a few minutes) and we ended up going to Danny Boys.
We sat down to eat and ended up talking about our week, his kids, sports, everything we normally get wrapped up in. I finally looked at the clock and mentioned we should get on the road. He took out his wallet to pay and a few dollar bills fell out of his pocket. He bent down to pick them up and ended up on one knee and asked if I would marry him. I was in shock! I just kept asking “are you serious? are you serious?” finally, he mentioned that “most people usually say yes or no”. That brought me back to reality enough to say yes, of course! All concern of being late was erased and we were able to celebrate with friends when we finally arrived at the bar!” -Carissa

I love all the character of the Graystone Presbyterian Church.

Where do you see your relationship in 20 years?

“Fat, relaxed & happy! Ok, hopefully not the first one, but definitely the second two. Because our relationship had a very strong foundation built on friendship, we see ourselves traveling together, keeping each other sane – and also probably driving each other a little crazy – supporting our kids (the ones we currently have and the ones we want to add to the family!), traveling, camping and laughing through all of it!”- Carissa

Tell us 3 random things about the two of you:
Carissa:
– I hate kiwis & maple syrup. I don’t want them anywhere near me! I cringe just thinking about cleaning up sticky pancake plates or picking kiwis out of fruit salad.
– Dance was my main sport in high school – tap, ballet, pointe, lyrical, jazz…
– When I was really little, I wanted to be a dentist just like the Elf in the classic Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer movie

Orville:
– He has coached basketball for 10 years
– He would eat ice cream for every meal if he could!
– He has seen every episode of Disney’s Phineas & Ferb

I have to give credit to Greg for this above shot! He nailed it.  It’s nice to have two shooters. He shot from the inside and I shot from the outside. You can see the image I got below.One more quick photo before heading off to see Grandma in the hospital.

So here’s the story. Grab a tissue. A week or so before Carissa’s wedding, Grandma fell and got hurt. She was unable to leave the hospital which mean she was unable to attend her Granddaughters wedding. I got a call from Carissa several days before the wedding date asking if it would be OK if we made a pit stop by the hospital…..ummm YES! So much YES! Are you kidding me?! We got permission from IRMC and because Carissa and Orville had decided to do a first look prior to Grandma being hurt so we had lots of time between the ceremony and reception to make it happen.  I think we made her day. What do you think?!  You guys, I had to fight back the tears. She is the sweetest person ever and was full of compliments for the newlyweds. Grab the tissues.

Moments like this are exactly why I love shooting weddings. The real raw moments….not posed, not set up…moments like this are what will mean the most someday.

You guys!!!!! How sweet is this?!I’m very close to my Grandma so these brought me to tears. Family is so important especially on your wedding day.

Wedding rings from different time frames. LOVE LOVE LOVE

Grandma didn’t get to be there for when she got ready, but she got to be there to watch them bustle her dress. There was so much love and laughter in the room. I’m honored to have been able to capture that.